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How long does it take to become a butler?

Wayne Fitzharris

Household Butler training courses can take between 4 and 8 weeks (some taking slightly longer). Hotel Butler training often takes a few days due to limited hotel resources but because hotel staff already have had other training, they make very good household staff, and the transition is a simple one.

How long does it take to become a professional Butler?

Household Butler training courses can take between 4 and 8 weeks (some taking slightly longer). Hotel Butler training often takes a few days due to limited hotel resources but because hotel staff already have had other training, they make very good household staff, and the transition is a simple one. Hotel guests are renowned for offering jobs to hotel staff . Those we train are often offered employment in the homes of hotel guests. But limited training does not make a master butler. Only continual learning can complete the job, and every good butler requires good experience to become a master butler.


Today the Butler is trained to be an expert in everything, sometimes, chef, sometimes nanny, or barman, the butler must be trained in perfect etiquette and be a man or woman for the moment, knowing how to set a perfect table, or write a perfect invitation for a special event. As Ivor Spencer once said, you can live without a rolls Royce, but you cannot live without a Butler, as the butler can do everything, including drive the Rolls Royce. If a Butler has been trained well, they will take charge of maintenance, housekeeping and security, they can help run your social calendar, take care of your staff, and still have time to be a confidant.


Butlers travel the world to spend time with the powerful, wealthy, and famous. Many have been trained to anticipate problems, they leap into action to keep estates and households in shape, and will oversee staff to ensure a perfect breakfast, a super-efficient morning meeting or a social/ business event goes without fault.


The more affluent the employer the more homes they are likely to have. Employers are usually far too busy to worry about all the details that make a successful home so the Butler becomes a time management saving device that takes away all that worry and if they are paid well enough, the Butler will dedicate themselves & acquire a type of loyalty which cannot be bought. The Butler will manage one or many households & will train the staff to serve his employers and their guests to exacting standards.


The perfect “Butler” takes years and years of training and experience to create those magical qualities that lets the Butler become irreplaceable. Finding a Butler to be a role model every other member of staff will follow and want to be like is often like looking for a needle in a haystack. Employers are learning if they want to run a super-efficient lifestyle and home, they need a Butler manager who has a wide-ranging multitude of skills.


Not everything boils down to money, if a Butler is happy, money is not always the motivator. Butlers within the UK can be quite happy earning £40K-£80K, live in without costs to pay. The better the references a Butler has, the more potential a Butler acquires. Salaries are just a reward for great service, with a few exceptions, very few Butlers become wealthy or famous. If wealth is the motivator, the Butler has chosen the wrong profession. There are people in our profession who do what they do because of the passion and love of service, and these are the rarest of all. Steven Ferry refers to the Butlers in Batman and Downton Abbey, but these Butlers are fictional and rarely exist. Employers want their domestic staff to work at the most anti-social times, evenings, weekends, and holidays and the hours can ruin any chance of a personal life.


Most Butlers do what they do because of their dedication, duty, and an attitude to serve, making them quite a rare commodity. Salaries stateside can go through the roof and the rarer the expertise, the more attractive the salary on offer. The payback for the employer is often having someone on call all the time and that is something an employer expects, and something todays Modern Butler is not prepared to do without the great rewards.

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